Friday, November 28, 2008

Dear God

Dear God:

The lady reading this is beautiful, classy and strong, and I love her.

Help her live her life to the fullest. Please promote her and cause her to excel above her expectations. Help her shine in the darkest places where it is impossible to love.

Protect her at all times, lift her up when she needs you the most,and let her know when she walks with you, she will always be safe.




I got this prayer in one of those send-a-copy-to-lots-of-people emails. While I hate sending along chain emails, I thought the prayer was beautiful--so here it is. I have thought of every regular reader of my blog (and some irregulars, too,) when I read it. I love you guys!

Thursday, November 27, 2008

Happy Thanksgiving!
Wishing you and yours a blessed holiday and the very best all the year long.
To all my friends and family, I am ever grateful for your love and generosity of heart. My life is full and happy, and all because of those who share their lives with me. God Bless You!

Monday, November 17, 2008

Our visit to England

Being a member of the military has a few little 'perks' , shall we say, and one of them is that you can fly on scheduled flights if there is Space Available. Hence, the name Space-A Travel. There are different categories of passenger, and being Active Duty makes you a higher category than a retiree. Knowing ths, Tom and I decided to take one last trip while he was still Active Duty but on Terminal Leave. Did that make sense?

We had always thought to go back to Belgium, where we had so many wonderful friends. However, most of those friends have moved on so we decided to go to England to visit with friends Kevin and Geraldine, and Carol. Tom's research indicated that our best bet would be to go to Germany and make our way to England from there. Upon arrival there, we learned there were two planes headed to England the next day. So we got ourselves a hotel room and got up the next day at 3:00 am to make the early call for the plane. Unfortunately there were no seats released on either flight, which left several people scrambling for a way to England. We sort of teamed up with a young American father traveling with his toddler daughter. His active duty spouse is deployed and he had just spent a month visiting the States and was returning home. Dale and Tom researched methods of travel and decided we should take the EuroStar to London. We took a taxi into the railway station at Kaiserslautern. As we were unloading from the taxi, Dale says "Oh, no! My laptop!" He had left it plugged in at the USO--and his ID card was with it! I stayed with the luggage; Tom, Dale and baby Allison went back to the base by taxi, collected the 'puter and returned in time to wait around for the train. We had a layover in Paris--Paris! where we took Allison to McDonald's for lunch, because Dale knew she would eat there. I am always amazed that American fast food chains are so very crowded in Europe-especially in France, where they are known for their fine food! We saw French social politics in action when the train cleaners went on strike. They held a very noisy demostration in the station - sirens and all. But we got to London, Dale went on to Mildenhall and we headed for Victoria Station where Kev and Geraldine came as soon as we called. They live about ten minutes away! So we walked back to their new flat in London. While we were there, Kev had to work the first day or two, but was off work for the weekend and Monday and Tuesday. We knew we wanted to see a show, so we walked down to Leicester Square and got tickets for the next night to see "Wicked."

Next morning, Tom, Geraldine and I headed to Greenwich--across the water from Canary Wharf. Canary Wharf was interesting. I wouldn't mind checking it out a bit more thoroughly some time. Greenwich was very cool, with an interesting University. The Painted Hall was gorgeous, and Geraldine and I had tea in a little place in the undercroft. Tom chose to go take photos, but he came to join us about 4:15...and said he thought the place closed at 4:00. Oops. It did close at four, and the clerk had already cashed out when Geraldine went up to pay. No one asked us to pay when our food was served and we felt terrible for keeping them late. We also walked up a hill to the Prime Meridien -- where time begins. We have several photos with one of us on either side of the line.

We got back to the flat with just enough time to change and head out for the show. "Wicked" was wonderful! The story, the songs, the set, the lighting--all were terrific. "Wicked" gives another story about the witches of Oz -- and could make anyone feel sorry for the Wicked Witch of the West! After the show, we went to an Italian place across the street from the theatre for a meal. We had a lovely meal and a good time --and we closed down that restaurant, too!

More soon...

Sunday, November 09, 2008

The Saga ***pictures added***

Well, I think I have mentioned the trailer in my back yard, but I have not given you the low-down on how it got there and what has been happening since. I hope I get this right--one day last week, Tom and I went to the Traffic Management Office at Aberdeen Proving Ground to arrange to have our household goods delivered to our new home. It has been in storage since the end of September. So, the arrangement was that the moving company would load the shipment on Tuesday, deliver on Wednesday. So far, so good.

All day Tuesday, we expected a call from the moving company, telling us what time to expect the truck to arrive. By 4:00pm, no such call had come in, so I called the company. Uh-oh, no answer. OK, they'll call in the morning. We set out alarms for 7:00am, got up, showered, dressed, fed...and waited. By 10:30, I decided to call the company again. Just as I was looking up the phone number, they called. They were on the way and would arrive in about an hour. OK. A little late to get started, but we'll deal. I asked what size truck they were bringing. The answer was TWO trucks--a tractor trailer and a smaller moving van. I cringed at the tractor trailer and pointed out that our road is too busy and not large enough to park a tractor trailer out there while it is unloaded. The driver seemed unconcerned and said they would assess the situation when they got here. Believing him was mistake number one.
So - the trucks arrive and the men are very concerned about pulling that big semi around our circular driveway. Me, too. But the driver indicated that, if I didn't mind that he crushed some of the vegetation at the side of the drive (we were looking at spiky green-leafed plants that produce a purple flower in spring followed by dark berries in summer) that he could do it. Believing him was mistake number two. Believing ONLY the small green plants at the edge of the driveway was all that would be damaged was mistake number three.

From the start, there were problems. The tractor could pull around the drive easily--alone. Attach a fifty-two foot trailer and that means the tractor has to pull V E R Y wide in order to get the trailer to remain on the driveway. So the first thing to be damaged was a very old, very large azalea bush. I had been taking pictures for the blog when things started going badly. I stopped when things started going badly, so I wouldn't make them feel like I was being litigious - so I was out there when the tires smashed my beautiful shrub...and one of the workers saw me watching and asked "Do you want the azalea?" Do I want the azalea? DO I WANT THE AZALEA? Well, yes, as a matter of fact I DO want the azalea, but more importantly, I want my septic system intact! Those shrubs hide two different service ports for the septic system! I managed to point that out before they crushed it with the gigantic truck. SO they did some back-and-forthing and finally (after driving off the edge of the driveway and crushing a drainage pipe, damaging the retaining wall and generally making a mess) got the truck in a position that it could be unloaded.


I do have to hand it to these guys--they hustled unloading that truck. It was unloaded and the paperwork finished by about 7:00pm. Then it was time to get that trailer out of there. Yeah. They tried--for hours they tried. They drove off the driveway, again, broke more of the retaining wall and somehow managed to break the belt on the truck's alternator and eventually overheating the motor as it spun it's wheels in my flower garden. At one point the trailer seemed to be inches from our back porch. They gave up with the truck overheated and sitting in the back yard. Then they arranged for a tow truck to take the tractor, but left the trailer sitting in the yard. It sat there for Thursday and possibly Friday--I forget how long now--I just know that they consulted a towing company who made more sense than the first group of men. However, they suggested removing a tree so that they could swing the trailer around and pull it straight out of the driveway.

Somewhere in the midst of all this, our new next door neighbor came over and introduced himself to Tom--and mentioned that he needed to point out our property line to him, as the truck had damaged HIS retaining wall, which adjoins our shared driveway! He built the wall himself, and had already fixed it, but what a way to introduce ourselves to our new neighbors!


The next day, we get a call from the original driver, who says he is on his way with a new tractor and he is going to pick up the trailer. Making this very long tail a little shorter, he made the problem two or three times worse, finally giving up when the truck was jack-knifed up against a tree in the back of the house. The tractor had some damage, as did the trailer. It was not good.


Nothing happened with the truck on Sunday, except that we joked about how to incorporate it into our landscape design.

On Monday, TWO tow trucks and a driver showed up, did even MORE damage to the yard, but THEY GOT THE TRAILER OUT OF THE YARD! WOOHOO! I do have pictures and will post them as soon as I get to the other computer, where they have been downloaded.




Here it comes!

First sign of trouble--the driver cannot navigate while still ON the driveway.

The back end of the trailer was had already taken out some azaleas, and was about to run over the septic cleanout!

The first tree the truck wedged up against....the tractor has already been removed and gone on it's way.
This is the way the trailer was left the first day.

This is the result of the original driver trying to get the truck out a couple of days after the delivery. He made things worse....

One of the two tow trucks it took to get the tractor and the trailer out of our yard--five days later!

Saturday, November 08, 2008

It's My Birthday!

And one of my presents is to have the trailer removed from the back of the house. The original driver that put it there is here to try to get it out. Seems his intention is to back it out the way he came in...this is going to be interesting.
Anyway, for my birthday, I will be headed to Mom and Dad's in a little while to present my birthday flowers in person, for the first time ever! I try to send flowers to my parents on my birthday, and this is the first time since I started that tradition that I live close enough to deliver them myself. I will have to decide in future if the 'delivery' aspect is better than the 'visit' aspect. But today, it's me.
Tonight, my son is coming up for dinner and my birthday celebration, and I wouldn't be surprised to see my grandchildren (and their mother) sometime today.
So, Happy Birthday to me!

Wednesday, November 05, 2008

IT'S MOVING DAY!

It will be so nice to have my winter clothes! and chairs! and kitchen stuff! and Tom has really missed his tools. (Big surprise there.)

*update* 10:00am and the movers still are not here. Does that mean they are still packing the truck? They were supposed to pack yesterday and deliver today...maybe they waited until today to pack? Maybe the crew was out celebrating last night and didn't feel like coming to work today? I want my stuff!

**another update** The movers called about 10:30, said they would be here in about an hour. They arrived at 11:07, maneuvered their truck - with some difficulty - into our driveway, worked diligently and finished unpacking by about 6:00pm. Why are they still here? Because their big ol' tractor trailer is broken down AND mired in the soft dirt of our back yard! I wonder if they will need to spend the night?

Tom is busily putting furniture together and trying to get organized. I have unpacked several boxes in the kitchen - learning in the process that my flatware organizers are both too large for the drawers here. ::sigh:: Seems like that's always the case. Nothing fits in the new house. I'm so glad this is our last move for a while!

FINALLY -- the cab of the tractor trailer and the three movers that were still here left here at about 11:00pm. They will call in the morning before they come back to pick up the trailer they left behind. I'll try to find time to fill in the details later. What a day!